

Mr Poindexter is butt hurt. About my date tomorrow. Although he doesn't say it, I know. I'm not sure if it's because my DC trip he wasn't there and it was super hot to me. Here's the thing: he likes to compete for me, mate-competition, it's hot. But I think if he feels he cannot compete (like when I'm away in DC, he's simply not on the field of play), he will just stop competing altogether - rigged game, won't play. This used to happen when I first would go on overnight dates, but we talked it thru, and came up with a good solution, he's always there, room nearby, I used to return to him like at 1am, but later he saw that broke the chemistry and was ok if I spent the night. Hmmm...suggestions? What do you think I should do?